This month in our Accelerating Your Ascension Mentorship, we focused on the Ascension Principle of Sacred Intimacy. So, what does woulda, coulda, and shoulda have to do with Sacred Intimacy, which also leads to Sacred Partnership?
I was working with a client yesterday and he said he didn’t want to make another ‘mistake’ in choosing a Beloved partner. He thought maybe he was being too cautious in his dating because of the past. We reframed it as he was being discerning, due to what he learned in his past relationships about himself and what he wants in a Beloved and in his partnership with her. He had grown and evolved due to his past.
So, have you thought the same thing … worried about making another “mistake” in who you are choosing to be in partnership with? I know I have in the past. I had mistakes ‘wired’ up as a failure. And, in relationships it was wired as love = pain and love = loss.
And, sometimes it was wired as that I wasn’t good enough or worthy of love. Or that I did something wrong, so I didn’t deserve to have what I wanted, or have a loving relationship. And many times blamed the other person and there was something wrong with them, so that’s why it didn’t “work out”.
There would be …
If coulda have said this if I ______.
If I woulda done this if I ________.
I shoulda have known ________.
Until you have the experience, you can’t know. You didn’t know what you didn’t know.
All of these create separation and distrust within your Self and with another. You are trying to second guess your choices instead of embracing them as … “oh, what do I get to learn from this experience?” Mistakes are not about something bad, wrong, or failure. They always and I mean always provide you the opportunity to learn, grow, and evolve, then choose again.
When you make a choice, it will show you what is in alignment with your desire, and what is not. It will also show you where you are energetically incongruent … what is there to heal from the past, where is your wounding held, and what are your thoughts and beliefs.
This actually gives you an opportunity to create Sacred Intimacy within you … “Into Me I See”. Having the courage to dive in to see what’s vibrating underneath your choices, and why your attract the who and what in your life, is one of the most intimate things you can do with your Self. It is the pathway to freedom to create the relationships you Truly want.
Doing your personal emotional release work is key to creating Sacred Intimacy and to attracting your Sacred Partnership. You then eliminate the need, or reaction to project your wounding and pain upon another. By energetically healing, completing, and transforming the past, you can reframe and redesign your present and future.
By doing so, then you don’t have to carry your ‘emotional baggage’ into another relationship and dump it on them. You can leave your ‘Coulda’, ‘Woulda’, ‘Shoulda’ at the door. You can be present in the moment with your Self and with the other. This provides an opportunity to go deeper with another and to connect at levels with your Self and another that you never dreamed possible!
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