How can you manifest love? How do you find the one person who will Love you in the way you’ve always dreamed of? It seems this is a question that most people ask in their lifetime.

A study done by the Pew Research Institute in 2022 found that about 6 in 10 single adults are still as interested in looking for a committed relationship. This is despite the challenges brought on by the Covid Pandemic and subsequent changes in the dating scene. ¹

Finding a romantic partner might be the highest on most people’s list of wants, but the idea of supportive and joyful relationships also extends to other friendships and people that you want to have in your life, career, and/or business. Your friends, co-workers, and neighbors can also have a big impact on your life.

Whether you currently have a romantic partner or not, expecting one person, or even any relationship, to fulfill all your interpersonal needs is asking a lot of one human!

What are You Looking for in a Relationship?

Relationship coaches and therapists can help you identify the traits you’re looking for in successful relationships. These traits will be different for each person. PsychCentral has suggestions for qualities that are beneficial for a long-term relationship².

Examples of these traits that go beyond surface personality can include …

•  sharing moral and ethical views,
•  demonstrating kindness, respect, and empathy
•  being open and listening especially during disagreements
•  and showing Love and affection in the way you need and desire

These can be some of the deeper values that you hold which are important when it comes to how to attract and manifest love in your life…the Love you want. This also applies to any kind of supportive friendship or really any relationship that matters to you.

Manifesting is more than just a wish list of certain characteristics. Being clear about what’s important to you and your core values is the starting point and forms the basis of your intention.

The next step in manifesting is to tap into your Desire and to determine what is it that you Truly want. By doing so, this is where you begin the process of becoming vibrationally aligned with the Love and relationships that you seek.

Your Vibrational Alignment to Manifest Love

Now, how do you align yourself to manifest love? Let’s first review what Desire really is and the ways you can create it.

The Universal Law of Desire is what one desires, what one wills it to be, and ideally it is aligned with Divine Will. To achieve one’s goals in life, one must first desire them.

Desire may have a different meaning than what you thought. The ultimate desire energetically includes:

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It is not just a thought, it is a feeling. And, without the Universal Law of Intention, desires cannot be manifested. Without desire, intentions cannot be fulfilled. The Universal Law of Intention provides the energy of thoughts, words, and actions.

The Universal Laws of Desire and Intention create an energetic field and vibration of Pure Potentiality, which has Infinite organizing power and possibilities. However, an intention that is not produced in alignment with the foundation of Love and one’s True Self will attract challenges, issues, lessons, and growth opportunities. Or, in other words, you will block your Self from what you really want in any aspect of your life. It will be hard to manifest love that is what you truly aligned with your ALL and bring you more than you can imagine.

Write your intentions for co-creating a relationship from your desire. Go beyond the grocery list … write a story that evokes emotions for you. When you evoke emotions, this helps to create vibrational alignment to what you want.

Be as specific as possible using the traits you have selected but also imagine how this new relationship will make you feel. This will become your Vision and what you want to vibrate out in the world. And, this is how you magnetize it to you!

Refine Your Vision to Manifest Love

The next step is to refine your intention and desire by looking at the motivation behind your intentions. This is how your Vision is spurred on … is it from Love or Fear? The underlying motivation is the foundation of where the vibrational frequency of what you are asking for is fueled from.

Is your intention and vision sourced from a 3rd Dimension paradigm of ‘shoulds’, owing, personal agendas, ownership, or ‘not enough’ fears, such as not enough love, money, work, etc, “am I good enough?”, lack of worthiness, confidence, and self-esteem? Are you trying to prove something to your Self or others, or pay back to family or society?

Or it is built upon 5th Dimensional vibrations such as Love, joy, freedom, passion, co-creation, flow, and synchronicity? Do you trust your Self to attract the Love and relationships you desire? Do you trust the Universe to assist you and lead you along the way so you meet the ‘right’ person at the ‘right’ time? Are you aware of if you are a vibrational match to a person and if not, are you strong enough to walk away and trust that whoever you are to be with is out there?

Are you unaware of what motivating factor is underlying your intention? If so, we invite you to go back to the point of exploring and discovering what is that you Truly desire and what’s fueling it. Do you know what kind of relationships you desire … with the Divine, your Self, a Beloved, your family, your co-workers, business partners, etc.? What motivates these desires?

Ask questions about what values you hold, and what qualities do you wish to be, share, and experience. What do they look and feel like, even including tangibles such as touch, taste, and smell.

When you take the opportunity to consciously ask your Self the questions and observe what is in your life, you now have the power to change it. You can empower your Self by looking at the incongruent energies that may be subconsciously driving you, and by the manifestations that are showing up in your life, which may be incongruent with your desires.

For example, if underneath, you don’t feel worthy of Love, then are you going to attract and manifest Love? No, not the kind you want. There may be a version of it but most likely it will be conditional and unhealthy. It’s like looking for Love in all the wrong places.

You may attract an individual who shows you that you believe you’re not worthy of love i.e., abusive, not loving, honoring, or respectful of you. The situation and relationship will show you where you are incongruent within your thoughts, feelings, words, behaviors, and actions. It will reveal the energetic patterns of the paradigms and belief systems that you create from. It will not be what and whom you want and gives you the opportunity to change.

Patience, Focus & Trust to Manifest Love

Once you have clarity with the above, then you can formulate your intentions and Vision. You can write them down and keep them somewhere special such as a Vision Board or ‘God Box’. For a more powerful manifestation tool, we suggest you place them on the Universal Manifestation Template.

Having patience, focus, and trust is another part of the manifesting process. This is where you consciously ask for help from the Universe to co-create your Vision.

In doing so, you will be guided to what is and what is not a match for you. You will be shown what brings you True happiness, fulfillment, and satisfaction, and what does not.

At times it may seem like you’re being taken down a path that seems to be away from your Vision, but this actually helps you to refine your desire and clarify your focus. Trust the process and believe the Universe wants to deliver to you what you want. And, you must be a vibrational alignment to your desire. So, if you’re not, it will give you the opportunities to heal, grow, and expand into the Love and relationships you want.

It is natural to have doubts, worries, or fears during the journey of attraction. Keep working on healing to clear old patterns, thoughts, feelings, and beliefs that show up to be incongruent with your desire, thus not being in vibrational match to it. For example, if you resolve and heal the energy of patterns in your thinking, feeling, and beliefs of unworthiness, then you will feel worthy to attract the Love and relationships you want.

Not being attached to the results and outcomes you think desire is also key. Your intentions and desires may show up differently than you expect. I’ve experienced this so many times. There have been times I asked for clarity regarding a relationship, or how to move forward in another area of my life.

Many times, the answer is not what I expected at all … in fact once it was completely the opposite. I asked for clarity about a romantic relationship I was in and the very same day my partner told me he did not love me. Well, at least I had the answer and could let him go so he was not in the way of what I really wanted. And, I trusted the Universe in what it showed me and the next steps to take.

When you are non-attached and open to what the Universe wants you to know, you’re building trust within you with the Universe. It will always show you what is in your Highest Order and fullest Potential. And, it will even reveal what’s in your SOUL’s Purpose and Plan.

Falling in Love with Your Self – the Ultimate Way to Manifest Love

And, one of the most important things to do … is to feel worthy enough to fall in love with your Self first, then others will follow.

Manifesting Love in your life takes you on an adventure to become more intimate with your Self … to love your Self in ways that you hope from others. You love your Self in more expanded and greater ways. You are more accepting, kind, and compassionate with your Self.

You also learn how to take care of your Self in ways that you have not done before. You learn how to be Self-sufficient and Self-sustainable, regardless of if someone else is in your life.

You create a deeper connection with you, your SOUL’s Essence, and the Universe, in which even more Love and joy flows into you and around you. You learn to trust who you are and Love all parts of you.

As a result of this kind of journey, you Consciously Choose what and whom are a vibrational match for you. And, you make difficult decisions when it is not a match (and it never will be). You learn to trust the guidance that is given and that you feel.

If manifesting Love and the friendships that you want is your focus, then I encourage you to take this in and download the Universal Manifestation template below. You can even create a Template about loving your Self and deepening your relationship with Self. Thus, this is then reflected outside of your Self in other relationships.

It might seem like more work than just “wishing it was so” but isn’t manifesting the Love and relationships you desire worth it? You are always manifesting on a daily basis, so let’s manifest what you Truly want! It can actually be fun and oh, so fulfilling! Give it a try …