What is Compassion?

Defining compassion is not easy. Over the years, it has been used as both a noun (in the context of having compassion) and a verb (being compassionate).

The Oxford English Dictionary defines it as ‘sympathetic pity and concern for the sufferings or misfortunes of others.’ It is from the Latin ‘compati’ which means ‘suffer with’. (Oxford English Dictionary) 

In the English language, the word compassion fell out of use during the late 1800s and has seen a resurgence in the past twenty years.

Researchers in the 21^st century have defined compassion as feelings that arise when you are confronted with another’s suffering and feel motivated to relieve that suffering. (Seppala) 

A study conducted in 2016 identified 5 elements that define compassion:

• Recognizing suffering
• Understand the universality of suffering
• Emotional resonance
• Tolerating uncomfortable feelings
• Motivation to act/acting to ease suffering

These five elements introduce compassion as being a motivation to act. (Strauss) 

Compassion v. Empathy v. Sympathy

It’s very easy to get compassion confused with ideas around empathy and sympathy.

Empathy is being able to see another person’s perspective and be sensitive to their feelings, thoughts or experiences. The word in English is newer and based on sympathy. It was first used in the early 20th century as a translation of the German ‘Einfühlung’. This German word meant “feeling-in” or “feeling into. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/empathy

Sympathy is defined as ‘feeling sad or sorrow for another person’s suffering or misfortunes’  (Merriam-Webster). In contrast with empathy, the word sympathy has been used since the late 16^th century.

However, sometime in the last hundred years, something has changed. First with the introduction of the concept of empathy into research and in the 21^st century an uptick in sharing the idea of compassion. We are moving towards wanting to bring the idea of compassion into reality in the world.

Can you have compassion without empathy or sympathy?

The team at TonyRobbins.com has tried tackling an answer to what compassion is. ‘

A quick answer to “What is the difference between empathy and compassion?” is this: Empathy is a visceral feeling we often can’t control while compassion is a conscious action. Can you have compassion without empathy? Not really. You may be able to perform acts of kindness, but if you don’t feel them in your Soul; it is not true compassion.” (Tony Robbins)

Our definitions of compassion, empathy, and sympathy have changed as we understand how they are different.

The consensus is that empathy and sympathy both precede compassion.  We need to go beyond feeling sad for someone else’s troubles (sympathy) and being able to see where they are coming from (empathy). These are just the first steps. What is required for us to take the next step is to take action to alleviate the suffering of another?

Why is Compassion Important?

Compassion is where sympathy and empathy can become action in the world. It is based on the 5th Dimension vibrations of Love. In having compassion, we can transcend the fears of the 3rd Dimension. These fears may have been planted through conditional and codependent love, pain, or trauma. They create the need to prove ourselves and protect our ego identity.

In the 21^st century, we are realizing that to truly have compassion means taking action.  We can volunteer our time to help those in need or donate money to pay it forward. Yet, sometimes the hardest actions we can take are changing our internal thoughts and beliefs about others and their actions.

Compassion for others

Energetic Blocks to Having Compassion 

However, sometimes these steps in Self-compassion are not enough. We can want to have compassion for our neighbor as they hang a political sign or flag we strongly oppose. Or, if our colleague wants to talk to us about their sick mother while we are trying to work. Or, if we come home to find our family members have left a big mess for us to clean up – again! But inside we start feeling tense, getting agitated, and disconnected from ourselves in the present.

We often have energetic patterns stuck in our physical, mental, and emotional bodies that block compassion and can be challenging to transform. We can also get more judgmental about ourselves because we keep seeing the same reaction repeatedly in our lives. And when we begin to recognize how we are feeling, it can seem overwhelming.

How to Clear Energetic Blocks

There is an easier way to clear these energetic patterns.

Sacred Geometry is the vibrational blueprint for the Universe. It has the power to affect change at a cellular level. The Diamond Co-Creative System® is composed of Sacred Geometry Energy Codes that can disrupt energy patterns that are out of alignment with your Soul’s purpose and re-pattern it as new energy. It resolves old patterns, habits, and issues completely. The Codes are holographic and work with your energy fields, cellular memory, Chakras, and Energy Bodies on multi-dimensional levels. (Co-Create Your Success)

This begins to elevate you from vibrations of fear, resentment, and disappointment in the 3^rd Dimension, to 5^th Dimension vibrations of willingness to give, understand, and, accept to be Compassionate! When your vibrations begin to change at this level it also affects your thoughts and your ability to take the action of Compassion.

The ComPassion Test

Step 1. Connect with your inner Com-Pass. Make a conscious choice to ‘BE’ and co-create from your own authority and authentic self (from your passion). 

Step 2. Utilize the energetics of Compassion to assist you in creating a new way of choosing what’s True for you that’s free of attachment in making choices and decisions.

Step 3. When a decision is presented to you (a situation arises or a person comes in) – follow the steps below.

🙏🏻 Connect your breath to check in with your authentic Self and what’s being asked of you. Ask yourself “Does this resonate with my highest potential for my Self and my Soul’s purpose?”

As you breathe into the energy of what is being asked, ask your Self to be free of attachment as you feel, sense or hear the answer. Is it a “passionate” YES, because I feel…Enlivened, Energized, Expansive? Or is it a “pass” because I feel Drained, Uninspired, or it has a ‘should’, ‘have to’ or agenda attached to it.

😍 Once you have used this Compassion test and your answer is a Passionate YES, then ask your Self “Is this creating LOVE…Living Only Vibrant Energy in my life?”. If you feel the vibrant energy then this too is a confirmation that you are energetically aligned with your authentic Self and your Soul’s purpose. 

🤔If your answer is a NO to the Living Only Vibrant Energy or it seems “off”, then ask yourself “What is energetically out of alignment within me?”, or “What is my inner guidance may be asking me to pay attention to, or become aware of and resolve within my Self so that I am energetically ready to move forward?” Then take the Action steps such as clearing and healing, letting go of attachments to the outcome, and any 3rd Dimension vibrations, until you feel a solid YES!

Have a play with these steps and consider joining us in the Diamond Code Club to receive a Compassion Code activation meditation and support from people on a similar journey.